“In the best conversations, you don’t even remember what you talked about, only how it felt. It felt like we were in some place your body can’t visit, some place with no ceiling and no walls and no floor and no instruments.”
Having a proper speaking manner is necessary in interacting and connecting with people. Communicating properly goes a long way in telling people what you are actually made off. The way a woman speaks shows that she is either highly stylish or has a graceless style.
As an elegant woman, your speech should be flavored with beautiful words. Present yourself to people in a manner that is graceful and remarkable. Have conversations in a way that will remind people of your presence even though you might not be there at that moment. Be that woman that your presence will be cherisher and appreciated when you are not around people.
Strive to present yourself in the best way; both in the way you dress and engage with others. Carefully choose the words to use when speaking to people; this can go a long way in strengthening your relationship with those around you.
Do not forget to:
- Say “please” and “thank you” when necessary.
Good manners are very important. Pay attention to details. When you request for something, always say “please”. It warms the heart of the person carrying out the request and makes them do more than what you expect from them. If the person has completed what you requested from them, always say ” thank you”. Appreciating others shows that you care and respect them.
- Avoid using vulgar words or slangs.
Imagine a woman in a beautiful dress. You obviously expect her behavior to match that beautiful dress, right? Instead of hearing such a melodious voice, you hear her swearing and cursing, that is enough to tarnish her image. Swearing and using vulgar languages can create a bad impression for any woman, to be more refined and elegant, you have to let go of all those bad habits.
- Use the right tone of voice.
Pay attention to the tone you use when speaking to people. Do not use an aggressive tone when talking, it can provoke the people you are talking to anger. Always keep a pleasant and friendly tone. It makes you more approachable and keeps those around you at ease.
- Be an active listener.
Listening to people when they are talking is very important, do not let your attention be diverted from the person you are with. Focus on them and listen to all they have to say without being rude. Do not interrupt them as they speak, wait for them to finish what they have to say before asking any questions or making any comment.
- Avoid being the center of attention.
When having a conversation with someone, give them the opportunity to say all they have to say. Let the conversation not be about “ME”. Listen to them as they express their feelings and make comments when necessary.
- Avoid gossips.
Display elegance and good manners by staying away from gossip. Nothing good comes out of it. What do you think if the person that you are gossiping about hears that ” the only” person that matters to her in the world turned her back against her? Gossips are not worth loosing true friends an relationships.
- Speak eloquently and elegantly.
Express yourself in a graceful and refined manner that can leave a good impression of you in the minds of people.
Elegance is not about wearing beautiful clothes and having the most expensive things. Are you searching for true beauty? you don’t have to search any longer, because true beauty is within you!!! Embrace your feminine nature.
You want to be more elegant, right? You have to showcase that amazing ” you” and your femininity in the way you talk, walk, treat others and generally in the way you carry yourself. Remember this: the way in which you communicate with people can actually be the difference between insolence and elegance.
The Graceful Woman 
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