How to avoid dramatic people in an elegant way

“Don’t waste words on people who deserve your silence. Sometimes the most powerful thing you can say is nothing at all.”

-Mandy Hale

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Coming in contact with dramatic people can be annoying and emotionally draining. Overly dramatic people can be very tiring to deal with. In elegance, there is no room for drama and dramatic people. Elegant women pick their battles; they never waste their time on things that are useless, they know her precious their time is. Elegant women don’t let people’ drama infiltrate their life. They know the importance of boundary and never allow anybody toy with their personal space.

A dramatic behavior is an attention-seeking attitude. Watching dramas of people can be really stressful and irritating. A dramatic person thinks that everything should be about them. They want attention from people all the time, they want people to console them when they are down and they want people to join them in their gossips and laugh at others. Dramatic people embarrass themselves. I don’t think any elegant woman will really want to end up like this!. It is not worth it; it shows that they lack self-confidence, respect and value.

There are so many dramatic people in the world. Will drama ever cease? I don’t think so. However, knowing how to control our emotions when we meet such people is very important. Why waste your energy on a matter that is pointless and frustrating?

“If only people put as much energy into helping people as they do into creating drama.”

Elegant women don’t do drama neither do they entertain people that are experts in them. They have no time for anything that is there to sap their energy. Being around people with drama and trying to avoid them might not be easy. Their are ways to avoid the drama before it even starts and still maintain your sanity.

Believe it or not, peace and calmness of the mind is something that no woman would dare toy with. How can these people be avoided without making a scene?

• If someone offends you or does something that upsets you, take a deep breath before you respond. Think before you act. Think of it like this; if I am the third person watching or observing this right now, what will my opinion be? Is it really worth it and mature to do this and is it something an elegant woman will actually do?

• Accept your feelings. Allow yourself a moment to feel angry or upset, you are not a robot. Do not retaliate; resist the urge to attack the person. It really proves that you have dignity as a woman.
• Put on a smile. There is nothing that hurts more than your opponent seeing a big smile on your face after all the hurtful things they have said or done to you. A smile is a powerful weapon when dealing with dramatic people. Do not smile like a witless woman, your smile should be genuine and simple.
• Take note of what the person did to upset you. That same thing can be repeated, so try to avoid it.
• Be calm. Dramatic people will try anything to get your attention. Ignore them, take a deep breathe, focus on what you are doing and be calm.
• Do not partake in the drama. A dramatic person is never someone to trust, once they are angry, they can reveal a lot. If you don’t want to be entangled in such annoying situation, stay away from these people. They are toxic!
• Focus on yourself. Don’t focus on people that are there to make you angry or drive you insane. Everyone has their own issues, focus on your own life and not that of others. If they want to ruin their character with such a disgusting attitude, then they should go ahead and do so. I have decided to fight my own battles and not the battles of others!

• Set boundaries. A woman without a clear boundary will never go far in life. If you don’t create boundaries for yourself, then other people are going to do that for you, It will be disastrous if they do so!
• Talk to a trusted friend about the issue on ground. Taking out time to reflect on the dramas that occurred with a TRUSTED AND TRUE FRIEND can be a way to heal quickly, for some women.

“Real people avoid drama. They know their time is too precious and choose not to waste it on unimportant people.”