“What you wear is how you present yourself to the world, especially today, when human contacts are so quick. Fashion is instant language”. This beautiful quotes was said by Miuccia Prada. Ladies, when we talk about elegant fashion, do not think it is the extravagant, sometimes hideous clothes, you probably see around.

Fashion is something you define yourself. Fashion may fade away, but the style will be there always. As an elegant lady, you should not wear dresses you are not comfortable with because everyone else is wearing it.

“Fashion you can buy, but style you possess. The key to style is learning who you are, which takes years. There’s no how-to road map to style. It’s about self expression and above all, attitude”.

In this 21th century, women are wearing too much revealing clothing, considered “normal and sexy”. The pressure from the society to join these latest trends and more is getting worse. An ordinary woman can easily succumb to this pressures, but for an elegant woman to succumb, it will be difficult to do so.

You may ask “why is it difficult if not impossible to see elegant women, dressed in these hideous clothes that are out now as trends? Elegant women know their worth! They don’t need such hideous outfits to define them neither do they need anyone to define their character. They are contented with what they have and are happy with themselves.

Elegant women are not seeking for attention. That is why they always attract the “right ” attention anytime. They are too focused on things that are important in their lives to notice those hideous things. If you keep following the latest trend in Fashion, when will you make a trend for yourself? Please don’t get me wrong. NOT all trends are bad or “hideous” but an elegant lady knows her boundaries. She knows the ones that are good and appreciates them but as for the ones that are bad, she discards them. Why should she waste time on things that won’t define herself image properly.

You define your personality without even saying a word. How? you may ask. Your dressing is enough to define you. Dressing properly for any occasion, does not only show sophistication and elegance; it shows self-confidence, self-respect and love too.

Have you heard of this saying: “dress the way you want to be addressed? Yes, then you should know that your clothing says a lot about you before you speak. If you want respect, then dress well. Wear clothes that will represent how other will see you.

Remember that dressing proper for all occasions is very important. Ladies, I know you already have a hint on this topic, so let’s explore this together.

As you know, elegant way of dressing is a unique style that is rare to find nowadays. So, when choosing a dress for any occasion, make sure it is neat. The dress should not be too tight or too loose, let it fit your body shape well. The dress should not glue to your body to the point of exposing your body.

The dress should be simple yet beautiful and classic, Definitely, it should be something you are comfortable with. Wearing stylish clothes in an elegant manner shows off your poise and sophistication.

You can try out dresses like these; they are simple but stylish and elegant.

Elegant trousers/pants

I know there are some jobs and occasions that requires a woman wearing a pair of trouser/pant. To be honest, is not all the time that we will be in the mood of wearing gowns or skirts with a fitted shirt. When you need to get to the grocery shop quickly, you might not have the time to look for a gown to wear. The quickest alternative is a pair trousers/pants.

The way we wear them should show that we have a sense of self-respect and class. It is not elegant at all to wear tattered trousers/pants all in the name of fashion. Why would a perfect pair of trousers/pants be torn to form a trend that is getting out of hand?

An elegant pair of trousers/pants should not be too loose on you neither should it be too tight. It should fit your body shape perfectly. It should be beautiful, neat and simple.

If you are having a hard time looking for a more elegant look for a pair of trousers/pants, these could serve as a guide.

Wearing belts with dresses

Sometimes you want to wear a dress but you discover that you need a unique thing on the dress. You might have worn that dress a lot of times and today, you just want to try something new and fascinating. You can try adding a belt. It can take the whole outfit to a new amazing level. Choose belts that go well with what you are wearing and something you know that is of good quality.

These can serve as a guide when choosing belts. You might find them attractive.

Choosing shoes as an elegant woman

What pair of shoes do I wear with this dress? Does this pair of shoes match with this outfit? Is this shoe elegant? These are questions that may arise when you want to choose the perfect pair of shoes that goes with your outfit. I want you to relax, we are going to solve these problems.

• When wearing a dress with a bold pattern or bright color, try wearing a simple black wedge, heels or flat shoes.
• If you are wearing a plain dress, try going with a brighter shoe to match the dress. For example, if you are wearing a black plain dress, try wearing a bright red-colored shoe.
• If you are wearing a multi-colored dress, the shoe you choose should have one of the colors found in your dress.
• Avoid wearing a solid color from head to toe. (Try to avoid too much color matching).
• Choose the appropriate colors for office wears.
• Choose the right shoes for the seasons.
• Choose heels and wedges that are not too high. It should be simple. Remember, this is a journey of refinement.
• Avoid wearing extremely high or sexy heels in professional settings.
• If you prefer wearing sandals, that is alright. However the sandals should be clean and it must fit your leg perfectly. It should not be loose; this makes it more comfortable when you walk.
• Wear a pair of decorative flat shoes to go with a dress.
• Colorful shoes will usually go with neutral colors like grey, white and black.

Let’s talk about bags

Sometimes, finding the right bag can be challenging. When choosing a bag, keep in mind that it contributes to your general appearance. So, as an elegant woman, you need bags that are of good quality, beautiful, simple and affordable. I personally prefer having different bags that are for different occasions; so when I need to go out, it won’t be difficult choosing a bag. For work, I prefer bags that are big enough to contain all my things but not too big. For diner, I prefer purses that are simple to go with my dress.

You should choose a bag based on your budget but at the same time beautiful. I don’t like bags with logos or brands attached to them, I prefer the ones without those; I wouldn’t like unnecessary attention when going out with the bag neither will I want anyone to know the brand of bag I am with (If you can relate). So, when I am choosing a bag, I want one that is simple yet elegant.

How does my hair contribute to my elegance?

Hairstyles are generally important. Why? It shapes your face and can leave a good impression on the people you meet. A woman’s hair contributes to her elegance. Since it is a noticeable part of your appearance or beauty, it enhances your personality.

One of the things you first notice in an elegant woman is her hairdo. An elegant hairstyle will always make you confident and attractive. A good hairstyle will always boost your self-image; it will make a good impression in the minds of people you interact with.

You feel comfortable within yourself and it also helps you love yourself more. A good hairstyle makes you appreciate your femininity. It complements dresses you put on and brings out the beauty more. You will be happy with yourself for taking care of your self.

Choosing your lipstick/ lip gloss/ lip balm and applying makeup elegantly

Choosing lipsticks and lip gloss is something women never get tired of, right? Applying makeup to enhance the beauty of the dress we wear is also something we love doing, right? But have you thought of using the lipsticks/lip gloss and make ups that match your skin tone?

Your make up as an elegant woman should look real, natural, beautiful and simple rather than fake, concealing, over-powered and heavy. Do not use too much foundation and powder when applying your make up. When using eyeliners and mascara, don’t apply too much. I will not suggest the use of eye shadows that are too heavy to contour your eyelids. Something simple, that blends with your skin tone should do the trick!

Whenever you are applying makeup, always get the one that goes very well with your skin tone. If you prefer red lipsticks, then go for something that is not too bright.

Lipsticks and lip gloss or lip balm should blend to your skin naturally, I prefer using nude lipstick, it gives my lips more natural look; but if I don’t want to use lipstick, I go with the lip gloss or lip balm. They are perfect for moisturizing my lips and keeping them from drying and breaking. However, if you are not comfortable with the lipsticks and lip gloss then try using lip balms. They are easy to apply to the lips and they make them shining too.

Nails and jewelries for the elegant woman

As an elegant woman, you should know how important it is to keep your nails neat and classy. Your nails should not be too long. Your nails contribute to your overall appearance. We elegant women, don’t follow trendy nails or have long nails. We don’t wear excessive jewelry. To bring out more of your elegance, you have to at least look and feel confident.

• Elegant nails should look natural and neat. If you want it painted, try neutral colors.
• Try bold colors like red only if it matches your skin tone and what you are wearing.
• Elegant women stick with classic colors of nail polish. We don’t wear sparkly nails or mix different nail polish colors. We do not follow trendy nail arts desperately.
• The length of all your nails should be of the same length.
• Your nails should be clean at all times.
• There is nothing wrong with nail arts, but if you want an elegant look, then avoid it. Remember we are dealing with natural color here. We don’t want anything that is obviously fake.

If you like putting on earrings, then they should not be the extremely long ones. The short earrings are beautiful. Any accessory you put on should not be too much. You don’t need the excesses! An elegant necklaces should go perfectly with any dress you intend to wear; either for diner or any occasion you intend to attend.

Remember that moderation is the key. Hand bangles should not be too much on your hand. Two or three is okay, depending on the one you choose. Just go with something that is simple yet elegant and classy.